It’s not that I hate kids. I hate kids because I worked for a Independent Thrill Ride Company in Reno, NV. When the rides were not busy, I was sent to the other side of the street where the go-karts are. ” I WANT TO GO AGAIN” is what ever child screamed before the race ended. There are these things in life called annoyances. Kids certainly annoy me. Dealing with these creatures that do not listen and refuse to obey anything anyone says. Parents are included in that past sentence.
So how is it that I have not had any children of my own? I can answer that. Because I am not careless with my choices in life. I have made bad choices, but none of them have resulted in having to deal with things for the rest of my life. That is what a child represents. No matter what, for the rest of your life, the kids name and the mother / fathers name will always be attached to you. Even if you dont see them, you will always be thinking of them. I do this now, from time to time with ex’s. And I dont have kids. Could you imagine? I’d never get anything done. Maybe that is why there are a lot of homeless people? Wife split on them and took them for everything, and then some.
I have yet to meet anyone I want to know for the rest of my life. I take that back. There is one person. He is awesome and I look up to him everyday. We never speak and it sucks. Anyways, back to the point. When I first started dating, you dated because you like someone. not because they have status and you can meet others with higher status and “Trade Up” so to speak. The shortest time that I have ever dated was 3 weeks. And that sucked. i never wanted to go back to that.
I feel like, when you have an agenda or motive, you do stupid things. That usually results in regrets. I have never had an agenda and I think that is why I my results end up in lonely nights, and not massive amounts of debts. When my ex left me in 2009, I started learning the web. inside and out. it has made me who I am today. Did it suck? Yes. Did it take everything I had to become a better person? Yes. Do I pay money every month to someone I don’t live with or have any attachment with? HELL NO!
So how have I dodged a bullet? You wrap it up and never let that go. You use the condoms you bought, and can be 100% sure that they have not been altered by you or the other parties involved. If it breaks, at least you know its not because of tampering. Got it?